Stop Shoulding Yourself

Do you ever feel like you give yourself too much criteria to meet? Or maybe you go to bed every Sunday night with a big list in mind of everything you SHOULD accomplish the coming week. I call this “shoulding” and I want to take a few minutes to share how partnering up with Halo Top has helped me stop this habit and created a happier day-to-day lifestyle. If you don’t know yet, Halo Top is a creamy, delicious ice cream that’s low and calories, high in protein, and truly makes you feel good about yourself no matter how much have in one sitting. Just knowing I can have an entire pint of ice cream without any judgment from myself got me in the mood to live the rest of my life this way.

Reframing Those “Shoulds”

I started the year off telling myself I SHOULD get X-amount of strength sessions done per week and eat a specific diet if I want to run faster and get fitter. The “should” that’s given me the most pressure these last 5 months was the one I set for myself in terms of my business—expand into more avenues of my line of work as quickly as possible. This created the most anxiety of every goal because of the mere fact that things take time. I was only going to let myself down if I didn’t meet my extensive to-do list every day to get to where I want to be.

I’ve decided to reframe the mindset of all of these “shoulds” and live my days how I WANT. Having a mindset that I “can” or “want” instead of I “should” has taken a load of pressure off, which means I can live content every day whether I got a ton of work done or none at all! I’m tackling all 3 aspects of my life where I tend to put pressure on myself—my workout program, my diet, and my job, and making sure I take the pressure off and do as much as I can and WANT!

Self Care is the Best Care

The first step to stop the “shoulding” is not putting so much on my calendar to begin with! I’m going to make sure the most important tasks get done, or at least the ones with the deadlines, and be more realistic about the rest. One of these priorities will be to take breaks whenever I want, and not feel guilty about it. This is where Halo Top comes in the picture, because I can choose to snack on a pint at any time of the day and be A-OKAY with it!

Exercising is a form of self care for me so I know my runs will get done because it’s actually something I want to do. It’s the extra parts of my training program—the strength training and healthy eating, that don’t always go as planned and I tend to get upset at myself when I go off the track. But not anymore! Reminding myself that I can take a break from some days of training or eat my favorite not-so-good for you foods when I want and should not ever feel like I am sabotaging any of my goals. 

It is all a mindset. We put so much pressure on ourselves to do good every day, eat right, exercise enough, and work the entire 8 hours we set aside. When things don’t go right, and you end up spending 6 of your working hours in one day watching videos on the internet, don’t get down on yourself! There is always another day tomorrow and the next, so everything will get done. Make time for what you want, exercise when and how much you want, and eat that ice cream! Halo Top won’t let you down!

Staying Happy & Nourished During Isolation

featuring Atkins

Sponsored by Atkins. All opinions are my own.

Working from home has its positives—you have a flexible schedule, can spend the entire day in pajamas, and can usually pause your work to squeeze in an errand or workout without a problem. It also has its downsides, though, especially when you are not only stuck at home during the workday, but also at night and the weekends. This is the case for everyone right now during the COVID-19 crisis we are dealing with. It was hard to get excited about working from home a couple of months ago at the start of this pandemic since the death toll was continuously rising every day. At the same time many people found it hard to stay consistent with a schedule being at home almost 24/7.

For me, it’s been a good eye-opener to be grateful for my health and the security of my family. I’m even more thankful now for the ability to run during this time, since gyms and other fitness classes have been canceled. Running brings me joy, but in order to run well and improve my performance in the sport, I need to eat well. Most of us know this does not come easy when you are home all day! I have a major sweet tooth and I’m living with family right now who love to keep desserts in the house, so you can imagine how hard it’s been to stay away from too many treats! Luckily I have gotten into the habit of managing my sweet tooth while still staying satisfied and nourished for my running goals.

Protein-Focused

Athletes know how important it is to get enough protein. It’s the nutrient that plays a significant role in muscle repair. Protein keeps you feeling full, too. It’s a good idea to include a serving at every meal, so you are less likely to overeat. The most important time to have protein is immediately after exercise. Hard runs call for my favorite optimal protein meal—a dark chocolate peanut butter smoothie! It’s a quick and easy recipe using my go-to shake from Atkins. The Atkins Dark Chocolate Royale is my favorite flavor but I’ve also made this smoothie with the Atkins Mocha Latte and Creamy Vanilla, and it’s just as satisfying! It just takes a handful of ingredients and a few minutes so you don’t have an excuse to skip out on your post-workout refueling!

How to Make the Dark Chocolate Peanut Butter Smoothie

Ingredients:

·     1 Atkins Dark Chocolate Royale Shake

·     ½ ripe avocado

·     1 Tbsp creamy peanut butter

·     1 Tsp cocoa powder

·     1 Tbsp chia seeds

Mix all ingredient together in a high-speed blender with a few ice cubes, pour, and enjoy! 

It doesn’t get easier than that! Most people find the use of an avocado in a smoothie to be weird, but since it’s relatively flavorless, it’s just meant to add thickness and creaminess. It basically replaces the use of a banana and makes it a perfect option if you are looking for a low sugar recipe. That’s the best part about this smoothie recipe—it’s low carb, so you can have it at any time of the day. It’s also a great option for those of us that crave something sweet late at night. Atkins shakes also have just the right balance of healthy fats, fiber, and key protein to keep you satisfied and your energy levels steady. I’ve been enjoying these shakes as part of my afternoon snack, but ever since adding them into my post-workout smoothie, I’m enjoying them even more! 

Quarantine Happy

The majority of people sitting at home are struggling to stay content with their day-to-day lives. You hear all over social media how this is a great time to find a hobby at home or start a new venture, but when you haven’t been succeeding at productivity, it brings on a sense of discouragement. This should not be the case! It is actually OKAY to not be coming out of this pandemic with a new sense of self. I believe we should be doing what we want whether we are in quarantine or not—if you want to just sit around and relax and not worry about productivity, that’s just fine!

Rather than taking up a new hobby or starting a new project, I’m focusing on the aspects of my life I actually enjoy and do more of them with the extra time I have. This means I am following a more structured running program, getting in and sharing the workouts I love with my community, and cooking more every day. I can’t come up with any excuses to get out of my current and regular health routine, and I am happy to say Atkins truly has made meal prep, snacking, and refueling after workouts much easier and more enjoyable during this stressful time.

My Journey to Fast Running

Fast race times are not just for the pros. Anybody can train to improve their speed as long as they put their heart and soul into running and find the right plan for themselves. Some runners do better running every day or with high mileage plans, while others do best with minimal miles and more rest days. For me, it took some trial and error and lots of research to get faster. I am questioned almost every day on how I cut my race times in such a short period of time. It did not happen overnight. I put in a good amount of work and a part of my passion is to share my story in hopes that my tips help so many of you!

Once Upon a Time, I Ran ONLY for Fun

First of all, my initial BIG improvements had much to do with the fact that I was not focused on getting faster AT ALL during the years I was racing before I decided to make this my goal. I’d been a runner since 4th grade, participating in cross country and track and field on and off until I graduated from high school. I kept running in college only because I hated the cardio machines at the gym, and running was just something I knew how to do that was outdoors. A friend of mine suggested signing up for a half marathon, which I thought was crazy at the time, but she promised me that one day running 13 miles was going to feel like what 3 miles felt like back then. She was right. I signed up for the 2009 Miami Half Marathon and was hooked, but not how I am hooked now. I did not pay attention to finish times or pacing or anything that has to do with improving at the sport. All I cared about was staying in shape and the excitement of the races once a year.

This is how I treated running up until 2016, when I randomly put on the Olympic Marathon Trials after reading about it in a Runner’s World Magazine. This was about 2 weeks after finishing my first Miami Marathon in 3:53. All of a sudden I got the urge to get faster—I figured, I actually like to run, I’m not bad at it, and the training plans I read in the magazines all seemed doable to me. A few weeks later I raced the Miami Beach Half Marathon and got my best time, 1:44, which I attribute to the motivation and adrenaline from my new found passion. That same week I bought a Garmin watch, new shoes, and signed up for the Ft. Lauderdale Half Marathon in November. Within those 8 months I spent hours researching training plans, advice and every amount of information I could to implement into my new venture.

More Miles Works

I went from running at comfortable paces 3 days a week to running 5 days, which included my long run and a speed workout that I would switch up every week. I believe it was the gradual increase in mileage and added speed work that got me a 9 minute PR in the half in only 7 months time! I was nervous to run more than every other day thinking I would get injured, but from everything I researched (and my research only comes from scholarly written studies, as I was taught in school—haha), I learned that as long as you SLOWLY add in the miles, keep it easy for the majority, and continue strengthening exercises, it can most definitely improve race times. This 100% worked for me. I ran the rest of 2016 getting up to an average of 75 miles per week.

I had already been a physical therapist at this point for 5 years, so I was super strict about injury prevention, recovery, and paying attention to my body. I raced the Miami Marathon in January 2017 and finish in 3:22—a whopping 31-minute PR! Of course, like the rest of us, I wanted more. After more research I decided to attempt the daunting 100-mile week before my next full marathon, but I knew this was going to come with some sacrifice. More miles = more sleep/downtime, more eating, and more recovery sessions. My baseline training over the summer that year was around 60-65 miles per week and I gradually added in more once the fall came around to hit 100+ miles for 3 weeks before I tapered for the race in January 2018. I cut another 16 minutes off of my PR that race. My half marathon PR came 3 weeks after that one where I cut 8 minutes from 2017.

After falling for the comments on how I wouldn’t be able to keep this up on my own, I decided to try out a coach, who initially kept me at decent mileage (although still 75% of what I was doing when I was at my best), and then dropped the milage down to 40 miles per week by the end of 2018. This actually got me out of shape and my streak was over. Since starting back up on my own this year I have gone back to my previous training plan, with much more updates, and finally feel back to my old self with even BIGGER goals!

2015: 35 miles per week —> 3:53 full / 1:44 half

2016: 75 miles per week —> 3:22 full/ 1:33 half

2017: 100 miles per week —> 3:06 full/ 1:25 half

2018: 70/40 miles per week —> 3:14 full / 1:33 half

2020: 90 miles per week —> 3:03 full / 1:24 half

Varied Speed Work

I spent the summers incorporating short speed sessions—200-800 meter repeats and Fartlek runs. During my actual marathon training, my speed sessions varied every week. I alternated between mile repeats, continuous 200m on/off 10ks, Yasso 800s, and progressive ladder workouts at the track. I rotated between these workouts every 4 weeks and was able to see improvements in each once a month when it was time to repeat them. Since 2018 I’ve learned all about the benefits of longer intervals for distance running (which intimidate me!), so that’s what I’ve been incorporating these days with amazing results. My best seasons are those where I’ve managed to stick to one track session of shorter intervals and one tempo run each week. The rest of my running is all EASY paced. Click here to see a few examples of my go-to speed sessions.

LOTS of Eating

It’s a good thing I love to eat, because marathon training allows me to eat twice as much as I used to! When I was training early on, I believed I could eat whatever I wanted. That is the most untrue statement for runners. First of all, we don’t burn as much as we think—in an hour-long run I burn around 350-400 calories. That’s probably just about a slice of pizza! Second of all—if you want to improve your performance, you must think of food as fuel, rather than pleasure…at least 90% of the time. Following a high-quality diet of the right amount of macros and calories will keep your body at a healthy weight, help you last longer during any run, and help prevent injury. In my opinion nutrition plays a bigger role in performance improvement than anything else. Once I started increasing my calories, especially carbs, I saw a massive spike in energy, better sleep, and more strength during speed sessions. Mid-run fueling switched from an intake of 200 calories (a pack of PowerBar chews) during an entire marathon, to over 1200 calories! This was a game changer for long runs and races—I am never exhausted afterwards like I used to be.

Quality Recovery

Recovery has many different sides. It includes sleep, elevating the legs, use of compression, icing, stretching, massage, physical therapy, foam rolling, and full rest days. It sounds like it requires so much time, and it does, but without these components, you risk being able to run more, hit paces, and recover from workouts quickly. This is probably my weakest area. If I skip something one day, it’s usually not my runs, strength training, or eating. I used to skip stretching, go to sleep late, and sometimes walk around too much on my complete rest day. Now, I am slowly learning to prioritize recovery—going to bed earlier, using my Normatec compression boots, getting a massage every few weeks, and stretching after every run. Since being more strict about this, I rarely get sore or feel fatigued legs on my runs—and I’m running around 90 miles per week right now!

Make Time for Cross Training

During the off season I was going to the gym 4-5 times per week for at least 45 minutes. Of course as I start to run more, I shorten my gym sessions, but make sure they stay high-quality and that I hit every muscle group. My workouts are mostly full body sessions, with a big emphasis on all core muscles, at least 3x per week. I NEVER skip the strength training—I remind myself of the time I was injured and how horrible it felt, and that is enough to get me to do the work. I also make time to go for walks and use the stationary bike—this will only be a couple times per week for 20-30 minutes.

This is MY Plan, Not YOURS!

As I mentioned in the beginning, adding in all of these components is totally doable for anyone. The only obstacle most people have is lack of time, but with a little sacrifice, and shifting of your schedule you can find time for each and every one of these components. The one thing you don’t want to sacrifice in order to add more miles is sleep—it is VITAL if you want to run well. You don’t need to run every day, and it’s actually okay to not have a full rest day. You just have to make sure at least 75-80% of your runs are easy. If you are stuck and unsure about how to structure your training to get results, a coach may be the answer—even if it’s just for one season. Don’t hesitate to reach out to me with any questions or if you’d like to join my team and have me be your coach!